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| My tribute poems started with the lady pictured below. The poem below is not one of them though. Andrea Scherling wrote it two weeks before her death. Andrea died at the age of 18, from a rare heart defect. She was truly a special person, wise before her years. She left this world on February 5, 2000. She loved to write, years later, people were still finding notes of hers. So today, I'd like to introduce her to all of you. Andrea wrote this in a card and gave it to me, shortly before one of my ex-wife's surgeries for cancer. She was a vital part of our families recovery plans. She often stayed up late talking with Betty at our kitchen table. She offered to babysit, if Betty couldn't do it and offered to drive Betty to her chemo sessions. She was a true friend to this whole family and I'm still amazed at how much she taught me. Andrea was part of the reason, my book ended up with a chapter entitled "Omega." When I presented the idea to include her in my book to her Mom, she loved it, saying her worse fear would be that people would forget her daughter. Believe me, anyone who knew her will never forget her. Now folks... here is Andrea... "The love of those, who care for us, can be a healing thing. As warm and bright and comforting, as sunny days in spring. The love of those who care for us, So often brings a smile. To cheer our thoughts, To lift our hearts, To make life, more worthwhile. The love of those who care for us, Can help us everyday. For love's the kind of miracle, That always finds a way." No, this won't be easy, Nor will it be short. But the situation exists. What we need to do now, Is let the doctors do their work, And be at Betty's side. Through each operation, And each therapy session, We must hold Betty's hand. She is strong and so are you. But when you start to break down, Dave, remember all the people, That are here for you. I'll be the first in line, To listen, if you let me. Let's get Betty through this. God Bless, Sincerely, Andrea Scherling |
| first shown on the 'net on January 30,2005 |
Thinking of our Angel It's been six years, yet... time seems like it was yesterday. Wonderful memories will always guide us and lead us... We all know that we were blest... a vibrant smile, a warmth shown by an enlightened spiritual presence. It's been six years since Andrea Marie left and it's been six years since an angel entered our lives We've been blest more then once for we know by our side... she will stay |
Thinking of our Angel I wrote on the sixth anniversary of Andrea's death. ( Feb 5, 2006) Andrea Marie Scherling, was a lot more then my stepson Brad's girlfriend. She was a friend to everyone she ever met. I truly believe she knew her time in this world would be short, so she lived it with love and happiness... |
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