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In memory of Jon Shada, died in a car crash in October of 2004. I trained Jon where we worked. A young man who loved life. What Would He Had Said When this young man, Is laid to rest, We're left wondering, Did we see him at his best? Plans for a future, he often told. Ideas were creative and bold! Told with a sparkle in his eye, Of inventions, He'd be willing to try. Happy and carefree, This is what we'd all see. A smile, that put us at ease. With a joke, he'd try to tease. There was no anger or hatred, From this gentle-man. He enjoyed his time, Living in this land. Dreams of college, Were on the way. He had hopes for a better day. We lost more, Then a young man today. A voice for our future.... .....went silent.... ...........nothing more to say.... |
For two years, I worked with a young man, who was a joy and a headache at the same time. He lived life to the fullest and found joy in making others laugh. He was killed in a car crash about eight months ago and I don't think there was one day at work that didn't pass without someone telling a story about Jon. He was an innocent, carefree, intelligent man who at the same time could be characterized as a "bull in a china shop." July 9, 2005 would have been Jon's 25th birthday. With this poem I wanted his parents to know, that we still think about them and that Jon is still a very big part of our memories... Joyful Memories Not quite a quarter of a century dreams never totally realized not quite long enough to leave a legacy broken hearts, still mourns, still cries Not quite 25 years couldn’t achieve your goals today, we remember with tears a young man with a carefree soul At work, you seem to make the day joking and looking for a bite to eat with things you did or words you’d say shaking our heads, laughing out of our seats Your memory will always live on stories retold time after time still hard to believe you’re gone your smile lives on in our mind It was hard to stay mad at some of the things that were done you’re one of a kind and I’m glad we got to share time under the same sun Gave it your all and you lived with a zest Today on your birthday, wishing you peace and rest Spreading your wings you began to fly And I’m sure you’re saying… “I’m happy, please don’t cry.” |
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| A poem I wrote and read at my father-in-law's funeral in 2004 A Man With Many Titles Many years ago, A child was born! George would be his name. For the rest of his time, In this world, Many lives, would never be the same. He was the joy, Of his Father and Mother. And his titles had begun. He was a son, And also a brother! Adulthood made him a husband and a Dad. War came, his little family, Became fearful and sad. A son, brother, husband, Dad, And now, a soldier, too. But his titles were far from being through! When he returned, his family grew! Four sons and a daughter, too. A simple life, is what he would stress. For five kids, on a farm, They were truly blessed. A new title, a farmer, He would receive. But his wife and children, Would be all he'd need. His titles still far from done, George would add a few more, Living his days, under the Sun. Grandpa came! For his grandkids, He always had time, To play some games. He watched his family, grow and thrive. Pretty soon, Great-Grandpa, came alive! He reminded us, that family came first. It helped fill our spiritual thirst. When his time comes to an end, A message to his family, he will send. "By your side, I will stay. I'll be here each and everyday. Its OK, the pain is no more. Please don't rush, I'll be waiting for you, At Heaven's door." |
| How many bosses in your life did you truly admire and respect? That made your work fun and you took pride in it? How many bosses have you worked for that wouldn't ask you to do something that he wouldn't do? In July of 2004, my boss retired. I wrote this poem in his honor. It was also the first poem someone asked me to autograph. If you got a good boss, cherish him (or her) because when they leave, nothing is never the same. Jerry, I now appreciate more then ever all the things you did for ALL of us. Jerry, was originally from Oklahoma, so any southerners, out there may understand the "twang" in his voice, which I tried to do in the poem. Mr. Production Superintendent Man God Damn, Mr. Superintendent man. Running a bakery on cruise control, Always running at a steady flow! He gave it his all - his heart and soul. Tell us, you don't have to go! Your stories you told a time or two, From Dallas and Kansas City, too. But the one's we'll remember best, Happened right here. I'm sure, they'll never, be put to rest. By the oven, nuts on the floor. A scared worker, Heading for the mixing room door. "I wouldn't have done that, If I was you!" All he saw was Jerry's veins, Turning deep blue. "Get the buckets," Said more then one time. But you always restored order, Until things were running just fine. You could see through our lies. "Bull shhhhiiittttt." Originality, we would try. "I'm in jail," But this too, would fail. How many gray hairs, Did you receive, When we tried to deceive? You told us your roots, Down Oklahoma way. Kunta Campbell, was born that day! Words you never wanted to hear, "Not my job." And you proved it, year after year. Our "String bean," Was a tall, lean, working machine! On July 2nd, 2004, You'll take one final walk, Out the side door. With tears and applause, We'll say good-bye. If you listen closely, The building.... Will let out a sigh. |
| A poem I read at my mother-in-law's funeral in 2005... I entitled it Our Mom And Best Friend Jim, Harold, John, Betty, and Ray your children... and their families... we’re all with you on this special day. We’re comforted with thoughts, of a sleep full, peaceful rest and through our tears we know we were blest. Many pictures line our walls but our memories will be the best of all the stories that you often told sharing a family history, worth more then gold No more walkers... no more pain... no more wheelchairs... able to walk again we’ll find comfort knowing Dad is by your side, showing you the way and we’ll smile as we watch you two dance the days away... So many pants patched, hems raised, buttons replaced and quilts made. So many meals prepared, so many beds made your work never seemed to be done, but yet, you always had time for us and shared in our fun. You watched your children, have children of their own and your love for them was well known. These grandchildren of yours, kept the family tree alive and it all started with the original family of five 13 grandchildren and 9 great-children, too descendants of both Dad and you it was your love that kept this family alive and it is this love... that will always be by our side Someday we’ll smile again... but right now it’s hard... ...we lost our best friend... |
| On New Years Eve Day 1939, my in-laws were married. Except for two years during WWII and the year after my father-in-law past away, they spent every year together. New Years Eve 2005 they celebrated their first anniversary together for all eternity. I only had the privilege of knowing them for nine years, but they were truly magnificent people. I wrote this poem using their thoughts and words... Their Time On a cold winter day our hearts were warm by each others side we would stay Only separated by World War II at the end of the year always reminiscing, saying “I do.” In Marysville, Kansas we became one New Years Eve was everyday and our love was never done Commitment our children would see a bond they’d understand within the strength of family Love grew with new sons and daughters, too children by marriage we love everyone of you We watched you start families of your own grand-children bouncing on our knees our little children were now grown The years kept flying by but we were never alone now great-grandchildren were by our side We’ll always be with you but now it’s time never forget we love you We’re starting a new life together it’s fresh and it’s new and our love will last forever… |
| A man I worked with for the last 11 plus years retired in 2007, after being in the baking business for over 40 years. I wrote this poem and the company put it on some fancy paper and than had it professionally matted and framed. I enjoy these types of personal poems, which I read at the retirement party. The real thrill, for me, is reading it with a pause in a certain place, bringing it to life. By the end, I had the guy in tears! Success!!! Ode To The Fruitcake Man there was a man a long, long, time ago who talked of fruits and bread dough he preached of the sweets and the booze thrown in and how his product was better then sin through the years he walked in many doors coast to coast at food shows, shops, and stores it didn't take long for the word to get around when the fruitcake man was back in town trying to convince others of its unique appeal always dreaming of the million pound deal "if we could do this," or "if we could do that" "man, our wallets would certainly get fat" Yeah, he was the man that sold fruitcakes don't laugh, he heard all the jokes, for goodness sakes fruits and nuts will never look the same he's throwing in the towel, retiring from this game somewhere in fruitcake lore will be the story of the man who walked these floors as he gets in his truck and rides away we'll wave... and remember the good old days |
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